It’s Natural to Miss Home when you are at Camp- and it’s not a sickness!

//It’s Natural to Miss Home when you are at Camp- and it’s not a sickness!

It’s Natural to Miss Home when you are at Camp- and it’s not a sickness!

Helping with Homesickness- tips from the American Camp Association. www.acacamps.org

 

What is it?
Homesickness is, above all, a normal feeling. It is the natural result of separating from home and loved ones. In a recent study, nearly 96 percent of all boys and girls who were spending two weeks or more at overnight camp reported some homesickness on at least one day. Almost all children (and grown-ups!) feel homesick when they’re away from home. People’s feelings simply vary in intensity.

 

What causes it?
There are several factors that put children at greater risk for becoming homesick. For example, children with little previous experience away from home, children who have low expectations of camp, children who feel forced to go to camp, children who are unsure whether adults will help them if they need help, children who have little practice coping with negative emotions, and children whose parents express a lot of anxiety are most likely to feel homesick.

You may be surprised to learn that some factors have nothing to do with the intensity of homesickness. These include geographic distance between home and camp and the presence of a friend from home at camp. Check out www.campingconsole.com to feel comfortable during your next outing.

When is it a problem?
Most feelings of homesickness are not problematic. In fact, missing home isn’t a problem until it becomes a preoccupation. When the feelings of sadness and anxiety associated with missing home become so strong that making friends, having fun, sleeping, eating, and participating in activities is difficult, something must be done.

 

What can be done?
It used to be thought that feelings of missing home disappeared spontaneously after a few days at camp. Although this is true for some cases of mild homesickness, research has demonstrated that if left unchecked, homesickness can intensify over time. The best remedy is a two-pronged approach:
(1) Prevent homesickness at home, before it starts; and (2) Actively cope at camp, if natural feelings of homesickness reach problematic levels.

The best at-home prevention strategies include:

  • working together as a family to select a camp, plan, and pack
  • spending practice time away from home, such as a long weekend at a friend’s house
  • experimenting with the best coping strategies during this practice separation
  • preparing pre-stamped, pre-addressed envelopes to bring to camp

 

The best in-camp interventions for homesick campers include:

  • staying busy
  • talking with someone
  • remembering that you’re not at camp for your whole life-just a few weeks
  • writing letters home
  • remembering all the fun activities that camp offers. And doing them!
2019-04-25T14:52:50+00:00

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